Special or Happy?
Years ago, when I was seeking a divorce, my lawyer asked me one day in the middle of my frustration and fear regarding custody of my boys if I wanted to be right or I wanted to be free. It was one of the best questions anyone had ever asked me, and I didn’t have to...
Meditations on Independence Day, 2022
When we bought our new house, a flagpole and the American flag came with it. The day Roe v. Wade was overturned, we took down the flag. I don’t recognize America anymore. The democracy I grew up in is languishing and I no longer feel our government represents the best...
A Budget is a Boundary
I’ve written in detail about boundaries before. I’ve spent a lot of time on the concept because boundaries were a key piece of healthy functioning I never understood or had before I was 50, and that lack caused constant problems and stress in my life. This week I came...